Motivating
Students
How a Family & School Time Capsule Project Works
Effective student motivation is a neglected art. The Family & School Time Capsule Project
is an 18-year-old system working to end such neglect. It uses ancient components, family roots and
goal setting, to efficiently increase student confidence, self-image, and motivation!
Part
1, The Family & School Time Capsule Mindset
Beginning in PreK, and for each grade thereafter through
high school graduation, each parent, grandparent, or other adult important in a student's life, should be invited to write
a letter to their student about their dreams for them, with a story from their
personal family history included in the letter to the student. This formula is the
mindset: looking constantly forward to dreams and goals while looking backwards
to constantly explore family stories and roots. This provides both a foundation
and goals for each student. (See Attachment #1 below for these first letter
writing instructions.)
Each parent figure is invited to write their own individual
letter to their student. Each of them represents a different family with a
different history. Students are a combination of histories between 2 parents
and 4 grandparents, at least 6 families and 6 family histories. Every student
deserves a record of as many stories as possible about each of the families, who united to make them possible and care for them. Annual letters can help build this priceless record for a student.
When the letter is completed, it should immediately be read
to the student by the person who wrote the letter, or read by the student
themselves if possible. The goal is to always have time for a conversation
between each letter writer and the student.
The student may have questions about the letter. This is the type of conversation every family
wants to encourage. Phone calls are welcomed as many letter writers may live
far away.
The child’s parents collect all these letters, making two
copies of each one, and placing the originals into an especially safe place
in the home to be used for such proceless documents. One copy is returned to each person who wrote a letter. The final copy goes into an envelope send to school. That
envelope should have the date, the parent’s name, including phone number and
email address, the child’s name, and grade, all on the envelope along with the
family address. A similar set of
information is placed on every envelope that is to be eventually returned to a
student. We do not want any unreturnable letters.
As the letters collect, a pattern may evolve and change for each writer as parents and grandparents reflect in their letters how the students themselves are growing and changing. Students change dramatically every year from Pk through 12th grade. Those changes will now be more frequently recorded in writing with evolving goals for the student. Hopefully these observations will be documented by as many as all 6 people whose history merged to bring this student into existence. Even if it is only one person is able to write this valuable letter, they will be creating a powerful record!
The sealed envelope with the valuable copies of these
letters is delivered to the school where parent or grandparent volunteers
called Time Capsule Postmasters for their child’s grade, will collect,
store, and retrieve these envelopes annually. They will be using the 700-pound
vault in the school lobby that serves as the School Time Capsule Vault
for secure storage. If you become one of the two or more Grade Time Capsule
Postmaster volunteers for your child’s grade, you may be working
about three days a year. Two Time Capsule Postmasters per grade are
needed. One Postmaster for each 70 students in a grade is recommended if
the classes are over 150 students.
If you become the Time Capsule Postmaster for your child’s grade,
you will follow them, with this volunteer work, year to year through to graduation! You will have priceless
time learning more about your child’s school and progress.
In the vault it is recommended plastic
containers be purchased to store each classes letters. All students know that copies of the
letters that were read to them, or that they read themselves, are stored in the
School Time Capsule year to year. They see the vault possibly several times
daily. It should be in a high traffic area of the school, maybe the school
lobby. Students are hopefully reminded when they see the School Time Capsule of
what their parents, grandparents, and they themselves wrote. They may make new
plans for their life as they think of these letters.
This mindset builds the most productive atmosphere for achieving the highest student motivation in all types of schools serving different ages. If your student is in a Pk-12 school, all three parts apply. Otherwise, skip to the part for the grades your child is attending. Part 2 describes the general differences in a system serving Pk through 5th or 6th grade. Part 3 is for middle schools, generally grades 6 through 8. Part 4 is for high school.
Part 2
Elementary School, Pk - 5
As
you approach the school to enroll your pre-K age child you should be presented
with a request for a letter from each parent to their child about their dreams
for their child, and to include in that letter a story from their personal family
history. (See the “Invitation to write a
letter to your student” page which is Attachment 1 below.) This invitation extends to each of the
child’s grandparents as well as other close relatives. Grandparents will
quickly realize the heritage they could leave by responding to this invitation to
write such a letter to their grandchild. These are recommendations, but do you
think grandparents would want to be left out of this process once they find out
what is being shared?
After
writing their letter to the student, each letter writer is asked to sit down
with the student, or call them by phone as needed, to read to the child the
letter they have written. Immediately after reading the letter the adult asks the
child questions to know the child understands what was written. Hopefully
encouraging such a discussion about family roots and life goals, and dreams will
make such valuable discussions more common in our families.
If you are a School Time Capsule Postmaster for an Elementary
school Pre-3rd grade, you must be certain each family from the
previous year is able to find the original letters they hopefully have stored
at home. If they are lost, you return the copy in the school vault to them, along with
the letter writing instructions. (See Attachment 1 below.) You also need to be certain all new parents
are introduced to the project and receive the same letter writing instructions.
You can have an annual event at the school where parents pick up the year-old
letters in person if they cannot locate the original at home. A cover letter
with the year-old letters will remind parents of the Time Capsule Project,
explaining that these are for each parent figure to first read again to their
child, and then have each parent and grandparent write a new annual letter to
their student. They write new letters with updated dreams and another family
history story, which are also read to the student by each writer asking if the
student has any questions.
The goal is for parents and grandparents to always be
thinking of how their child is changing and how their dreams for them may have
changed. Also, as parents focus on writing a new story from family history in
each year’s letter, they will be documenting their valuable family history. Their
children will grow up with a wealth of documented stories, not word-of-mouth variations
that change over time in too many families. In many families too many family
stories are never recorded and simply forgotten.
This annual pattern of service by a parent volunteering as
their child’s Class Time Capsule Postmaster connects a parent to their
child’s class, from grade to grade. It helps them know the other students in
their child’s grade.
It is in the third grade that students themselves begin the
process by writing their own letter to each parent and grandparent asking for a
letter back. Students will ask to know
the dreams the person they are writing to has for them. They will also ask for
another story from family history. Attachment
#2 below is suggested wording for a letter to use from 3rd grade on
up through middle school.
When students receive back letters from parents,
grandparents, or anyone they have asked for a letter, they immediately read
each one and talk with the letter writer about any questions they have about
what was written. Such conversations around dreams for the student, and family
history stories in these letters will hopefully lead to an increasingly common
set of topics in family conversations. How valuable would that be for our
students? In the 3rd grade is also when students begin writing an
annual letter to themselves about their thoughts on each letter they have received
and their own plans for their future. This priceless letter also goes into the
envelope.
Part 3
Middle School, grades 6-8
Letters are written annually year to year through middle
school. The Grade Time Capsule
Postmasters return the year-old letters in the 6th 7th
and 8th grades. This will require securing any letters they can from
the elementary schools with Time Capsule Projects sending students into their 6th
grade. In 8th grade in such
separate middle schools, the letters written all focus on goals 10 years into
the future. This creates a 10-year class reunion for 8th graders
when these letters are returned, a valuable tradition.
In high school annual letter writing and returning of year old letters by Postmaster volunteers continues. The only change in high school is for the 12th
grade students when the focus is 10 years into the future for all letters. A family history
story continues to be part of every parental letter from 9th grade
through 12th. (See Attachment #3 below) As
these older students write an annual letter to each parent and grandparent,
they can include more specific requests such as for specific family history
stories to be repeated, maybe with more detail. The letters each year will
allow four more stories to be collected during high school from each parent and
grandparent. A wealth of family history can be collected!
The 12th grade letters will remain in the High
School Time Capsule Vault until the 10-year class reunion. At their 10-year reunions
these young adults will present their identification to be certain letters are returned
to the right students. We do not want anyone to somehow lose their letters. Identification
is required to reclaim an envelope at all reunions.
The 10-year reunions can be assisted by the Postmaster volunteers for
each class, but staff may need to volunteer to help reunions be consistent. The
Class Postmaster Volunteers would only see one such reunion for each grade
they volunteer for. As an Alumni group
grows, they will be able to put on the annual 10-year reunions which the Grade Postmasters
only need to attend with the box of alphabetized envelopes to return to former
students for that graduation class. They
could also have boxes of envelopes from older classes who had not yet picked up
their letters.
At all reunions the school can ask for volunteers from the
alumni attending, such as Career Day speakers to return to the school to speak
to current students when Career Day events happen at school. Imagine the power
a person who was sitting in your child’s seat just 10 years earlier may have. The
value of Career Day events will improve.
Part 5
The Future
Imagine if you had 14 sets of letters from each parent and
grandparent for your 14 years in school. It would be rare to have all those
letters, but any letters you receive would be a priceless family record! Someday you may share them with your children
and grandchildren, to possibly be copied and passed on to future generations.
Sadly, it is possible some of the older letter writers may
have passed away by the 10-year reunions making their letters truly priceless. While
the death of an older adult may be more common, we have also had two students
who passed away from accident and illness among the 1,700 students invited to
the first 5 Quintanilla 8th grade reunions from 2015 until 2019. (The
Covid Pandemic shut down the Project in Dallas ISD, including all reunions,
starting in 2020.) Parents of the children who had died responded to the
reunion invitation postcards sent out with their tragic news. They asked for,
and were very thankful to be able to receive, the valuable letters that they
and their child had written 10 years earlier.
Imagine how students will change during these years due to such letter writing exchanges every year. In the schools with active Time Capsule Project letter writing, we have had a firm drop in teen pregnancies, truancies, dropouts, and related behavioral issues. Family bonds strengthen. Gangs have less value for students. Student achievement has risen constantly as students plan for their futures with more self-confidence from a better knowledge of family roots and stories, and their own life goals.
The SEI, or School Effectiveness Indices, scores each year for all schools are used to verify the value of the Time Capsule Project. The SEI is described in the DISD Data Portal as “Dallas ISD's value-added measure of the academic performance of a school's students. The SEI model is an alternative to evaluating school performance with absolute measures such as passing rates. SEIs are a fairer method for determining a school's effect on student performance because they take into consideration known factors over which school personnel have no control, such as socio-economic status, language proficiency, and gender.” You can read about the SEI measure at https://mydata.dallasisd.org/SL/SD/SEI/Default.jsp. You will quickly understand why the SEI is used to measure Time Capsule Project progress in the spreadsheets documenting such progress. Study the document titled; “SEI Data 2006-2023 for 32 DISD Middle Schools, the School Time Capsule Project”, to see data proving school improvements with the Time Capsule Project, and declines in achievement when letter writing stops.
This open-source School Time Capsule Project needs formal
research. Please share this with anyone planning a PhD in human behavior or
education to help research happen. It will certainly lead to the publication of
at least one book!
4/16/24
Bill Betzen, LMSW (Emeritus), 12-year-retired Dallas ISD middle school teacher
bbetzen@aol.com
See Attachments 1, 2, & 3 below
Attachment #1 (Suggested wording to be edited as needed for
each school situation.)
Invitation for each parent and grandparent
to write an annual letter to their Pre-k through 2nd grade child.
Dear
Parent, Grandparent, and anyone with a child in Pre-k through 2nd
grade.
We are
writing to you to begin a tradition we hope you are able to follow until your
child graduates high school.
Imagine
if for every year you attended school, possibly from Pre-K through graduating
high school, you received letters from each parent and each of your
grandparents to you about their dreams for you.
Each letter also included another story from their family history. Yes,
every human comes from a minimum of six families: 2 parents and 4
grandparents. For many reasons one or
more of those 6 individuals may be missing, but the more stories a child can
collect, and the more stories other family members can fill in from the missing
branches of the family, the better.
Obviously,
the letters you write will have to be simple for the younger child and will
gain details and facts as your child grows.
These are your decisions. The
goal is to get the process started so your child knows more each year about the
families they are part of, and about the dreams in that family for their
future.
In
summary, write a letter to your child about your dreams for their future with a
story from your family history that you want them to know.
Once
completed please read the letter to your child and be ready for any questions
they may have. Hopefully this will
become a valuable annual process as your child and you each learn more about
each other.
A
parent should collect the letters and make two copies of each one. The originals are kept in a safe place in the
family home. One copy goes to each letter writer, and one goes into the
envelope that is sent to school.
Think
of these letters during the year as to what you can write next year. Explore
family history to add more such priceless history each year.
Ask
the Family & School Time Capsule Postmaster for your child’s class, or the
teacher, any questions you may have.
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Attachment
#2 for 3rd through 8th grade (Suggested wording to be
edited as needed)
Invitation
for each parent and grandparent to respond to the letter from their student and
write a letter back to them about your dreams for them and another story from
family history.
Dear Parent, Grandparent, and anyone with a child in 3rd
through 8th grade.
We are beginning, or continuing, a tradition hopefully you were
are able to be involved with for your student in earlier grades. There is a
significant change this year as we are beginning to take advantage of your students’
writing ability. Hopefully with these instructions you will receive a letter
from your student asking you to write a letter back to them about your dreams
for them. They will also be asking for a
story from your family history.
Imagine if for every year you attended school, possibly
from Pre-K through graduating high school, you received letters from each
parent and each of your grandparents to you about their dreams for you. Each letter also included another story from
their family history. Yes, every human comes from a minimum of six families: 2
parents and 4 grandparents. For many
reasons one or more of those 6 individuals may be missing, but the more stories
a child can collect, and the more stories other family members can fill in from
the missing branches of the family, the better.
With each passing year the letters you write can be more detailed
with more facts as your student grows.
These are your decisions. The
goal is to constantly improve the process. Your child should know more each
year about the families they are part of, and about the dreams in that family
for their future.
In summary, write a letter to your child about your dreams
for their future with a story from your family history that you want them to
know.
Once completed your student will immediately read your
letter and hopefully do it with you present (either in person or by phone) so
they can ask any questions they may have. Hopefully this will become a valuable
annual process as your child and you each learn more about each other.
In the 8th grade there will be one major
change. All letters will focus on dreams
10-years into the future. What are your dreams for your student 10 years from
now? These 8th grade letters
will remain in the Family & School Time Capsule Vault in the school for 10
years. At that time a 10-year reunion for your student’s class will happen.
More details about that later.
A parent should collect each of the letters received,
including their own to their child, and make two copies of each one. The originals are kept in a safe place in the
family home. One copy goes to each letter writer, and one goes into the
envelope that is sent to school.
Think of these letters during the year as to what you can
write next year. Explore family history to add more such priceless history each
year.
Ask the Family & School Time Capsule Postmaster for
your child’s class, or the teacher, any questions you may have.
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Attachment
#3 for 9th through 12th grade (Suggested wording to be
edited as needed)
Dear
Parent, Grandparent, and anyone with a student in our school.
You
are receiving a letter from your student asking for you to write a letter back
to them about your dreams for them. They ask for a story from your
family history to be in your letter.
Imagine
if for every year you attended school, possibly from Pre-K through graduating
high school, you received letters from each of your parents and grandparents
about their dreams for you. Imagine that each letter also included
another story from their family history. How valuable would such letters be for
you today? That is what we hope to now achieve for your student.
You
will receive a request like this from your student each year they are at SOC.
With each passing year the letters you write can be more detailed with more
facts as your student grows. These are your
decisions. The goal is to make this a record of family dreams and
progress. Your child will have a better view of their goals and roots with the
valuable letter you write. When students focus on roots and goals their
academic achievement will rise!
Once
your letter to your student is completed please give it to your student. The
student will immediately read it. Then they are to meet with you (either in
person or by phone) to talk about any questions they may have about your
letter. Hopefully this will be a valuable time as you, and a student you care
very much about, will learn more about each other, as well as goals and roots.
If your child is in the 12th grade you will
focus on dreams 10-years into the future in your letter. What are your dreams for your student 10
years from now? These 12th grade letters will remain
in the Family & School Time Capsule Vault in the school for 10 years. In 10
years your student’s class will have a reunion at which the envelope with all
these letters will be returned to them.
But
now we are creating the documents for students in all grades. Now a parent
collects each of the letters received by their child, including their own to
their child, and makes two copies of each one. The originals are
kept in a safe place in the family home. One copy goes to each letter writer,
and one copy goes into an envelope that your child brings to their ELA Teacher.
In
one final Family and School Time Capsule Project ELA Class for the year, your
child will bring the envelope with all their letters. They first prepare a self-addressed envelope
in class to hold all their letters. Your child will then write a letter to
themselves about their own thoughts on each of the letters they received, and
about their own dreams for their future. All these letters go
together into the self-addressed envelope that they will receive back the next
year, except for the 12th grade letters. 12th grade
letters is the only one that stays in the vault for 10 years.
Ask
the Family & School Time Capsule Postmaster for your child’s class, or
their ELA Teacher, any questions you may have.